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Changing Diapers and Taking out the Garbage

How should we view menial tasks such as changing a baby’s diaper, taking the garbage out or cleaning the house? We may consider these tasks relatively insignificant. However, the truth is that they may be just as important, when we do it l’shem shamayim.

When R’ Yehuda Samet and his wife had several small children, they hung a sign over their changing table that read, “I am changing this diaper in order to help this child grow into a Torah scholar (if it was a boy), a Yerai Shamayim, a servant of Hashem, an Eishes Chayil (if it was a girl) and I’m doing it with sincerity and joy.” Although they didn’t always read it out loud, it had a tremendous impact on the way they changed diapers.

A poor guest who finished eating at the house of the Chozeh of Lublin noticed him cleaning the table. Puzzled, the man asked, “I can understand that you serve the guests because of the great mitzvah of hachnasas orchim, but why are you cleaning the table? Servants do that.” The Chozeh answered him that on Yom Kippur after the holy service in the Kodesh Hakadashim, the Kohen Gadol would also remove the fire pan and the spoon. So too this mitzvah is no less important.

This idea is represented by the terumas ha’deshen which was removing the ashes from the mizbeach — the dirty work. For this reason, דשן is an acronym for דבר שאינו נחשב, that which is considered inconsequential. We see how significant it is since it was placed next to the mizbeach.[1] So the next time we need to do some dirty work, we should realize that it is actually cleansing us.

 


[1] Vayikra 6:3.

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Yechezkel Hirshman Writes to Hyehudi…

Here is his what he wrote (in response to this):

BSD

Hello Mr. Hyehudi, LOY”T
I really do not know much about you or your personal hashkafos only that they appear to me to be somewhat confrontational.
Regardless, I am always gratified that anyone even reads my posts and more so that they post references to it. Yasher Kochacha for that.
I actually would like you to reference my material more often. I have really only seen two posts referenced and the substance of these two posts in particular give me a bit of insight. (Oddly enough, they both mention Rav Dovid Cohen.)
As far as the post that I deleted, be assured that not only did you have nothing to do with this, but I wasn’t even aware that you ever referenced my post until about the time it went down. In that vein, I want you to know that I have a personal policy that, to the extent possible, when I refer to other people in my posts, especially to other writers, I make an effort to notify them that I did so. If I have their email, or if I can locate it, I will send them a copy.
I wrote an extensive post of this policy and why I do it. You can see it here:
As such, I think you likewise have an obligation to notify me if you reference my posts. I am available at this email.
Back to the deleted post, all I will say on why I deleted it is that Rav Dovid Cohen is still a distinguished person and represents the Torah world, so to denigrate him any more than is absolutely necessary would be  לא תלין נבלתו because, when any distinguished Torah personality is disgraced, it is  קללת אלוקים תלוי and I do my utmost to be sensitive to Kavod shamayim.
And, yes, I do still have the original, but it is no longer for public consumption.
Hatzlacha rabba,
Kol Tuv,
Yechezkel Hirshman
P.S. You may post this email if it suits you – totally unedited but you may remove this PS.
The end. I intend to reply tomorrow.
UPDATE: Here is my response to the above.

הרב אחיקם אלירז, בוגר הר המור: אני מתבייש ברב צבי טאו שאמר שפרשת חיים ולדר היא עלילה

דברי הרב אחיקם אלירז בוגר ישיבת הר המור:

היום הזה, אני מתבייש בישיבה שלמדתי בה.

למדתי בישיבת הר המור ושלוחותיה כ-7 שנים. יש לי הערכה עצומה למקום ולרבנים. אבל היום כואב לי מאוד, ואני מתבייש.

אני מתבייש במו”ר הרב טאו שליט”א שאמר שכל פרשת חיים ולדר היא עלילה. לא יודע מנין שאב הרב את המקור לדבריו אבל ברור שדבריו אינם נכונים ולעניות דעתי אף מסוכנים.

אני מכיר נפגעת אחת של ולדר.

חבר ילדות שלי, פסיכולוג קליני יר”ש שעובד במרכז טיפול בבני ברק, עסוק בפרשה הזו למעלה משנתיים. מטפלות קולגות שלו מטפלות בנפגעות של ולדר כבר שבע שנים.

ידיד נפש שלי, יהודי בני ברקי יר”ש מרבים שהיה גם חבר אישי של ולדר, כשנודעו לו סיפורים בדק וחקר היטב, הוא שמע בעצמו כמה וכמה עדויות מנפגעות ועודד אותם להגיש תלונה במשטרה.

אישה שיש לי איתה קשרי עבודה מכירה את הסיפור מלפני שנים, מחברה שלה שנפגעה ממנו.

רבנים בבני ברק ועובדי עירייה יודעים על הסיפורים הללו הרבה מאוד זמן למה לומר שזו עלילה, כשהאמת היא שהסיפורים שנתפרסמו הם רק קצה הקרחון של מעשיו.

לומר כך זה חילול ה’, ומעבר לכך, זו אמירה מסוכנת מאוד.

בתור נפגע בעצמי בילדות, אני מבין מה המשמעות של האמירה הזו.

זה נתינת לגיטמיציה לפוגעים להמשיך לפגוע, ומסר לנפגעים לשתוק.

אני כותב כי כואב לי, כי זה מציף אותי.

את רוב תורתי שאבתי מתורת הר המור, מרבניה ומספריה. עד היום אני תורם לישיבה גם בהו”ק וגם בקמפיינים.

אבל היום אני מתבייש בישיבה שלמדתי בה. אני כותב בעצב כי איני יכול לשתוק.

חילול ה’ גדול כבר יש בכל הסיפור הזה. למה להוסיף עוד חילול ה’?

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(מתוך אתר רוטר.)

Walter Block: Decriminalize Private, Competing FDA Alternatives Now!

The FDA is an Albatross

Competition brings about better results than monopoly. This is a basic premise of economics about which there is virtually no debate, at least not within this profession. Or, indeed, on the part of pretty much anyone else. It would be exceedingly rare to hear a discouraging word about the benefits of competition vis a vis monopoly from any quarter whatsoever. The competitive system lowers prices, increases quality, reliability, security, any other good thing anyone would care to mention. Monopoly, in contrast, leads in the very opposite direction.

A case in point has recently arisen. Amylyx Pharmaceuticals just created a drug to combat amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), or Lou Gehrig’s disease. This horror is a progressive neurodegenerative disease that attacks nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord.

In its phase 2 trial, patients given this drug survived 8 to 11 months longer than those who were given a placebo; for a six-month trial period, they benefitted from a 25% slower rate of decline in their ability to breathe and chew food. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) in its monopolistic wisdom, however, declined to allow patients suffering from this dread malady to try this new, unproven, cure. This government bureau is holding off approval pending the results of a phase 3 trial, which will not occur until late 2023 or early 2024. Why? The drug might not accomplish its task and might prove actually harmful. In the meantime, ALS patients, who would give their eye teeth and more to risk this Amylyx product, are left twisting in the wind.

How would a competitive free market system function in such a case? Simple. There would be several, perhaps dozens of firms which tested and rated new drugs, such as the one now under discussion. They would be companies and institutions such as the Harvard Medical School, M. D. Anderson, the Mayo Clinic, Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles and NYU Langone Hospitals. A privatized FDA might even join the scrum. They would all be certification agencies, approving or disapproving of drugs, sort of like Good Housekeeping Seals of Approval, the Better Business Bureau or Consumers’ Reports. The information garnered from such a system would presumably be of a higher quality than from present FDA monopoly arrangements.

As important and maybe even more so, there would be no licensing system in place. No one could legally prohibit anyone else from trying an unproven experimental drug, as at present with Amylyx. ALS patients would no longer be prevented from throwing the dice in an effort to save their lives. There is all the world of difference between licensing and certifying drugs. Only the latter is justified. Only certification is compatible with economic freedom.

Suppose these rating agencies disagreed with one another as to the safety, viability or effectiveness of a given drug. Would this be a flaw, vis a vis the present permit system? Not a bit of it. Whenever scientists are on the cutting edge of something or other, there are bound to be at least some disagreements. If there was unanimity, there would hardly be any need for certification in the first place.

But there was divergence of opinion, also, amongst the FDA staff in the present case. Their advisory committee voted only 6-4 against approval of this ALS drug. In the event, the FDA must speak with one voice. In contrast, many viewpoints can emerge from a certification industry. The major advantage, here, is that after the smoke clears, when more information become available, the market can reward those companies which were more accurate and penalize those that erred with loss of profit and even bankruptcy. This continual grinding down of firms which prove to be mistaken tends to render those remaining as the most successful.

The FDA can never go out of business no matter how many errors it commits. For example, approving of dangerous ineffective drugs or rejecting helpful and safe medication. However, they are subject to a bias in the direction of the latter. They cannot go broke, but are more subject to reputational loss when they commit the former error.

Take the thalidomide episode as a case in point. This drug was highly successful in alleviating vomiting and other debilities of morning sickness on the part of pregnant women, which typically occurred in the first trimester. However, horribly, it also led to miscarriages and serious birth defect deformities in a small but significant percentage of the progeny of women who utilized it.

How did the FDA perform in the face of this challenge? To be fair to this organization, it never did approve of this drug in the 1950s and 1960s when these tragedies occurred. (It later approved of it, but for leprosy, not for expectant women). On the other hand, it the FDA did not warn against it, did not forbid its usage, as it had the power to do, until long after these disasters took place. Was the FDA, then, a good watchdog, ensuring safety for the US populace? It is difficult to reach any such conclusion. In sharp contrast, were there a certification industry in place at the time, this calamity would have served as a litmus test. Some companies would have recommended in favor of it, some against it, and others, as in the case of the FDA, would have remained silent about it, during this crisis. Then, the free enterprise system would have rewarded those certification firms that warned against it.

End the FDA and substitute the benevolent free enterprise system for it!

This originally appeared on New English Review and was reprinted with the author’s permission.

From LRC, here.

re: The Torah Doesn’t Exactly Belong to Rabbi Dovid Cohen…

You snooze you lose!

I just noticed yesterday’s (timestamp updated) article linking to Yechezkel Hirshman’s criticism of Rabbi Dovid Cohen of Chevron’s pretense that Ben Gevir is evil, etc. for ascending the Temple Mount was later removed by its own all-too-Charedi author. (Sorry, I didn’t back up the original first!)

Perhaps it was our very act of linking to his fine article that prompted the author to eat his own words.

I’m starting to think Hyehudi.org Editor has a knack for finding and aggregating the top Jewish goodies on the web…

(There’s a Zohar on tooting one’s own horn, but too excited right now to check it out.)

UPDATE: Mr. Hirshman wrote to me in response, see here.