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There is a limited spectrum of masculinity for males (pansies) and a limited spectrum of femininity for females (tomboys), but boys will be boys and girls will be girls. (Homosexuality, though related, is a different matter for a different time.)

The knee-jerk response of saying Transgenderism is just “Sirus” and/or “Lo Sakifu”, “Lo Sashchis”, “Lo Yilbash”, etc. and mental disorder seems solid. Those who try to uproot the simple view of things with their customarily shoddy vagueness of: “Yitzchak had a female soul until the Akeidah according to Kabbalah”, or saying Dinah was more masculine by going out and Yosef feminine for improving his looks at 17 because they were exchanged in the womb according to the Targum, are saying… What, exactly?

There are maybe 3 Teshuvos on sex-change surgery’s Halachic effect. And do they have “meat”? If you’re not extracting serious proofs for determining novel cases from the sea of non-Aggadic Talmud Bavli, you aren’t adding value.

Bottom line? Until and unless Rabbi Brand or someone of his stature looks into it anew, it’s a non-issue.

Numbers help us grasp things better.

The results of our efforts are 0% in our hands and 100% in God’s hands.

Our efforts themselves are 0% in God’s hands and 100% in ours.

Moshe said, “So said Hashem, At the dividing point of the night, I will go out into the midst of Egypt (11:4)

On the possuk “And I will pass through the land of Egypt” (12:12)) Chazal expound that Hashem said “I and not an angel”.

The Zohar (Medrash Ne’elam, Vayero) asks two questions. Firstly. why did the Egyptians receive the seeming honor of being punished by Hashem Himself rather than by a mere angel? Secondly, if the camp of the Assyrians was smitten by an angel (see Yeshaya 37:36) all the more so should the Egyptians have received retribution through the medium of an angel, because the Egyptian nation was the most degenerate and immoral nation of all, and an angel would seem to be the best medium for punishing them rather than Hashem Himself.

The Zohar answers that specifically because they were so depraved and steeped in tumah was it not appropriate to send something as holy as an angel into their midst. Hence, this was a sign of disgrace for the Egyptians rather than a sign of honor.

So we see that the tumah of Egypt with its heresy and immorality was so severe that even angels were not to come into contact with it. This teaches us how foolish those are who go to live amongst irreligious or non-Jewish people whose way of life is very far removed from their own, thinking that they will surely not be harmed by this. If Hashem wants holy angels to stay away from places of tumah, how much more so mere mortals, who are surely even more likely to be harmed by their surroundings.

Rabbi Sternbuch’s comments on Parshas Bo – the English Parsha sheet

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Otherwise serious Torah scholars in Yeshiva fear even speaking like a normal person when studying certain Sugyos in Shas. When learning Nedarim, or Shevuos, they will never use the first person point of view in an example, as though this would obligate them to do or avoid doing something…

It’s one thing to be superstitious in a religiously permitted way, such as not demonstrating Shechita on himself, not writing “Siman שמ”ד”, or being careful, as Sefer Chassidim says, around Iyun study of Moed Katan or Yevamos.

It’s one thing to avoid saying Birkas Hashem and the like, but quite another to mix in ridiculous “Yiras Shamayim”, as though reading the Talmudic words “I owe you a Maneh” (money) means you do, “Hareini Nazir” (I accept the Nazirite vow) demands nervous hedges תוך כדי דיבור, even “Harei At mekudeshes” (Behold you are my wife) are words to be avoided (maybe a female will pass within earshot of the study session!) [‘וגדולה מזו ש”ע אה”ע סימן ל”ה ט].

An otherwise rational person once said the Yiddish word for Yes should not be ethnically pronounced as “Yah”, for fear of uttering the Name in vain (יה)…

To psychologize, I think this is caused by repressed zeal for actual Halachos. Jews have a religious impulse, especially when generally cultivated, and if suppressed, it will express itself in insanity.