Seder Mussar Is Designed to Fail

One problem is it’s done in public, so the chances are low one will study what he himself needs to (let alone with “flaming lips”).

Observe. Who studies “Orech Apayim”, those who need it or those who don’t? Have you ever observed a Yeshiva youth focusing his Mussar time for months on, say pride, in sefer Orchos Tzaddikim? Me neither.