Maharal and Misandry

What I write here must be admitted with suspicion, because I have never myself taken the time to study the author I criticize. The man I debate may be a shadow, but I do not desist from the whole affair, for one good reason: this is his perception in the eyes of the masses.

Who? What?

I speak of the Maharal and his reputation for feminism/misandry. This is likely a major reason for his popularity, especially among Ba’alei Teshuvah, who were introduced to his thought as a way of easing the transition, or for bold flattery, i.e., Judaism is also long-winded and feministic.

Whenever popular speakers address women qua women, they mention only Dor Hamidbar (those who left Egypt). Women could not be presented as more righteous. They refused the Golden Calf, they didn’t accept Lashon Hara on the land of Israel, and on and on. And this is harped on with good reason; perhaps this is the ‘exception to prove the rule’.

Medrash Tanchuma Pinchas 7:7:

ותקרבנה בנות צלפחד, אותו הדור הנשים היו גודרות מה שאנשים פורצין שכן את מוצא שאמר להם אהרן פרקו נזמי הזהב ולא רצו הנשים ומיחו בבעליהן שנאמר ויתפרקו כל העם וגו’ והנשים לא נשתתפו במעשה העגל וכן במרגלים שהוציאו דבה וישובו וילינו עליו ועליהם נגזרה גזרה שאמרו לא נוכל לעלות אל העם אבל הנשים לא היו עמהם בעצה שהרי כתיב למעלה מן הענין כי אמר ה’ להם מות ימותו במדבר ולא נותר מהם איש וגו’ איש ולא אשה על מה שלא רצו להכנס לארץ אבל הנשים קרבו עצמן לבקש נחלה ותקרבנה בנות צלפחד ולכך נכתבה פרשה זו סמוך למיתת מרים שמשם פרצו האנשים וגדרו הנשים

דבר אחר…

Aside from untruth inherent in the whole thing, this is an awful strategy if you wish to keep men motivated. The Cursedians have already tried this and their Houses of Abomination are empty of men.

Women must have their ego stroked, yes, but by their respective husbands.

Feminism Confirmed

From a chain-letter:

Woman has Man in it;

Mrs. has Mr. in it;

Female has Male in it;

She has He in it;

Madam has Adam in it;

Okay, Okay, it all makes sense now…

I never looked at it this way before:

Ever notice how all of women’s problems start with MEN?

MENtal illness!

MENstrual cramps

MENtal breakdown

MENopause

GUYnecologist

AND

When we have REAL trouble, it’s a… HISterectomy.

Send this to all the women you know to brighten their day.

Send this to all the men
just to annoy them

Remember You Don’t Stop Laughing Because You Grow Old,
You Grow Old
Because You Stop Laughing.

Rabbis Kotler and Teitelbaum: A Juicy Tale

The Satmar Rebbe once offered a petitioner an apple. The man declined: “I’m not hungry” (innocently missing the point of the offer). The Rebbe remarked: A Chassid you will surely never be!” Rabbi Aaron Kotler, nearby, quickly interjected: “Say Amen to the Bracha!”

This story was told to me by someone who heard it from Rabbi Yisrael Meir Wallace.

(I don’t know if he said this loudly enough for the Rebbe to hear.)

Ultimate Gratitude

Granted or Taken for Granted

Granted or Taken for Granted

By: Dr. Zev Ballen Update date: 3/2/2017, 12:22

Scientists who study gratitude and thankfulness are proving that people who see life as a gift and who have a sustained feeling of appreciation for what they have are living longer with greater health, happiness, and success—but why?

What is it about feeling grateful that causes people to live more vital, energetic, enthusiastic and successful lives? How can simply saying “thanks” for the blessings we are “granted” (instead of taking them for granted) improve children’s grade point averages, improve sleep by 30%, and reduce blood pressure and heart attacks? What makes the emotion of gratitude so special, that those who possess it have better marriages than those who don’t? Hint: gratitude is an emotion that not only makes you feel good, but it also leads you to want to do good.

To begin to understand the great benefits that grateful people enjoy, we need to have a clear definition of what gratitude really is in contrast to its opposite—ingratitude. A clear definition is, in itself, a powerful tool. My definition of gratitude: A relationship-strengthening good feeling stemming from you having been granted something of value from G-d from which you have benefited. It is a person’s choice to remember to see everything in life as a gift that was somehow lovingly bestowed upon him by the Master of the Universe.

Why is gratitude a relationship-strengthening emotion? It’s because when we thank G-d for the blessings that He sends us, either directly or through others, we are strengthening our relationship to Him and the other people or institutions through which G-d sends us benefits. We are acknowledging G-d as the primary ultimate “giver” and ourselves as the humble receivers of his Goodness. When we say “thank you” to G-d we are actualizing our primary purpose which is to come closer to Him. By thanking Him we are also honoring G-d. When we honor G-d we are acknowledging his Greatness, Superiority and total authority over us. With our “thanks” and appreciation of what G-d does for us, we actually “elevate” and reveal more of G-d in the world—another common mission for which we were all created.

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From Breslev.co.il, here.