re: Don’t Delay the Mitzvah on Wedding Night!

One of our readers told me Rabbi David Bar Chaim rejects the Gezeirah of Dam Besulim as practical halacha, probably based on the Rambam Issurei Biah chapter 5 (although the Nosei Kelim don’t seem to regard this as a Machlokes Rambam\Raavad).

I don’t know whether or where the rabbi ever elaborated further in writing.
(Or maybe Rabbi Bar Chaim just tells this to, er, “certain types of people”, as I know even some mainstream rabbis do.)