The Greatness of Preparing for Shabbos

Preparation Period

The outcome is in proportion to the investment. This can be compared to an archer. The more power he puts behind his bow and arrow, and the more carefully he takes aim, the more efficient it will be. The same applies to spirituality, whether it be preparing for tefilla, Shabbos and the like.[1] The more one prepares, the more will be produced.[2] In fact, the word hachanah, preparation, is related to the word kano, base,[3] because preparation is the base for that which everything stands. In light of this we can comprehend why the early pious ones would prepare an hour before tefilla,[4] as their preparation was the impetus for their great tefillos.

To attain the kedusha of Shabbos, we need hachanah, preparation, for Shabbos. Although preparation for all Avodas Hashem is important, the only time it is stated explicitly is in connection with Shabbos: v’hayah ba’yom ha’shishi v’haichinu es asher yaviu, it shall be on the sixth day when they prepare what they bring.[5]

Of all of the days of the week, Friday is the day that represents preparation as we will now demonstrate. The seven days of the week are connected to the seven shepherds — Avraham, Yitzchak, Yaakov, Moshe, Aharon, Yosef and Dovid. So Friday, the sixth day, matches up with Yosef, the sixth shepherd.[6] One way we see this is that Yosef exemplifies purity because he overcame the test with the wife of Potifar in the area of circumcision[7] and on Friday we purify ourselves in preparation for Shabbos by going to the mikva.[8]

Friday is the day of preparation for Shabbos as the gemara says mi she’tarach b’Erev Shabbos yochal b’Shabbos,[9] whoever toiled on Friday will eat on Shabbos. Additionally, it says v’hayah ba’yom ha’shishi v’haichinu es asher yaviu v’hayah mishneh al asher yilkitu yom yom, it shall be on the sixth day when they prepare what they bring it will be double what they pick every day.[10] Yosef represents the idea of preparing for Shabbos because Yosef told Paroh to prepare for the years of famine by preparing in the years of plenty.[11] Also, he said u’tvoach tevach v’hachain, have meat slaughtered and prepare it.[12]

In Lecha Dodi we say mai’rosh mikedem nesuchah, from the beginning, from antiquity she was honored. The words mai’rosh and mikedem both mean “from the beginning,” so what is the difference between them? In the six days of the week, we have 144 hours. 144 is the gematria of kedem. The more we invest in Shabbos from the 144 hours from the onset of the week — the hours in the week prior to Shabbos — then nesuchah, the more we will feel the queenliness of Shabbos. The more we prepare for Shabbos, the more we will feel Shabbos. May we all merit to prepare properly for Shabbos during the week so that we will enjoy it so much more.


[1] Prior to Baruch She’amar we say hareini mizamein es pi, I now prepare my mouth. In a similar vein, prior to performing mitzvos, such as with sefira, we recite hinini muchan u’mezuman…, I am prepared and ready to perform the commandment of…

[2] Ohr Hachaim, Shemos 33:11.

[3] Shemos 30:18. There is a saying, “Today’s preparation determines tomorrow’s achievement.”

[4] Brachos 30b.

[5] Shemos 16:5.

[6] Dovid Hamelech corresponds to Shabbos. On this day, we say in Shemoneh Esrei, yismichu v’malchuscha shomrei Shabbos, they shall rejoice in Your kingship, those who observe Shabbos. Additionally, Shabbos is associated with royalty as it is called Shabbos Malkisa, the Shabbos queen.

[7] Breishis 39.

[8] The six orders of Mishnayos (See Shabbos 31a) parallel these six shepherds. Yosef who is the sixth shepherd corresponds to Seder Taharos, the sixth order of Mishnayos. When there was a famine in Mitzrayim there were nevertheless provisions (shever), because of Yosef. R’ Moshe Wolfson notes that the words shever b’Mitzrayim (Breishis 42:1) shares the same numerical value as Seder Taharos, 884.

[9] Avoda Zara 3a.

[10] Shemos 16:5. On Friday, the Jews in the desert received a double portion of munn, just like Yosef received a double portion in Eretz Yisrael as his two sons become two shevatim.

[11] Breishis 41:34-35. See 41:48-49.

[12] Breishis 43:16.

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Accepting Shabbos Early

Anticipating the Day

Shabbos is the most coveted of all days as we say in the Shemoneh Esrei of Shabbos chemdas ha’yamim, most coveted of days.[1] It is a day we must look forward to.[2] This is another meaning in shamor es yom ha’Shabbos,[3] to anticipate Shabbos, as shamor can mean to anticipate as in v’aviv shamar es ha’davar, Yaakov looked forward to when it would come true.[4] In a similar fashion, the Ohr Hachaim interprets v’shamru Bnei Yisrael  es ha’Shabbos.[5] For this reason, we say every day in the Shir Shel Yom, hayom yom…b’Shabbos.[6]

The gemara[7] tells us that in regard to bringing in Shabbos, the more we advance it, the better, as it shows we cherish Shabbos. Indeed, we sing in Friday night zemiros umimaharim lavo, rush to enter Shabbos.[8] This shows that Shabbos is beloved by him. The Shem Eliezer comments on byom ha’Shabbos byom ha’Shabbos ya’archenu,[9] that the two times it mentions yom ha’Shabbos they refer to Shabbos and Tosefes (adding onto) Shabbos. When we do this, ya’archenu — it shows that we value Shabbos.

Here is an amazing story to close with. After many years of being childless, a couple was finally blessed with a child. However, their excitement soon faded as they were informed that the baby boy was born with a hole in his heart that was threatening his life. All the top doctors they went to didn’t help. The parents then traveled to the Chofetz Chaim. The grandson that was attending to the Chofetz Chaim told his grandfather the story of the infant boy with a hole in his heart and the danger the baby is facing. The Chofetz Chaim told them, “I don’t know why you traveled so far to ask me for a bracha as Shabbos is the source of bracha. Accept upon yourself to start Shabbos a bit earlier, glorify the Shabbos a bit more than usual and you will receive the blessing you need from Shabbos itself.”[10] The parents followed the advice and with Hashem’s help the child was healed.


 

[1] Incidentally, we say in kedusha on Shabbos (Mussaf), “ayeih mekom kevodo…, where is the place of His glory…?” The answer is Shabbos, as ayeih is an acronym for eyoha’Shabbos (Shemos 20:8).

[2] See Rambam, Hilchos Shabbos 30:2. Concerning playing chess on Shabbos, R’ Moshe Feinstein (Igros Moshe, Yoreh Deah, 3:15:2) writes that really it is not forbidden if one gets pleasure from it. Still, it is surely better not to play because of v’dabeir davar (Yeshaya 58:13), your speech on Shabbos should not be like your speech on weekdays (See Shabbos 113). Also, sometimes the one who loses is upset and then it is surely forbidden (See also the Minchas Yitzchak 3:33:1 where he discourages chess).

[3] Devarim 5:12.

[4] Breishis 37:11. Siduro Shel Shabbos, Volume 2, 4:1:15. Tangentially, R’ Chananel (died in 1055) writes that R’ Chanina would dance when bringing in Shabbos (Baba Kamma 32a).

[5] Shemos 31:16. We know that Shabbos is likened to olam haba, the world to come (see Brachos 57b). The Chidushai Harim makes a comparison: Just as the next world is after one exits this world, likewise Shabbos comes after one leaves the weekday completely.

[6] See Ramban Shemos 20:8.

[7] Pesachim 105b.

[8] The Baal Haturim (to Shemos 16:23) tells us an allusion to the idea of adding from the weekday to Shabbos both before and after Shabbos. It says Shabbason Shabbos kodesh (Shemos 16:23) where the word Shabbos precedes kodesh while in another place it is in the reverse as it says yihyeh lachem kodesh Shabbos Shabbason l’Hashem (Shemos 35:2). There the word kodesh precedes the word Shabbos. These indicate that we add to Shabbos when it begins and when it ends.

[9] Vayikra 24:8. The simple meaning is that each and every Shabbos he should arrange the lechem hapanim.

[10] See Shabbos 12a.

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Miscarriages

It is known that many married couples have experienced miscarriages. How should they view this? What is the Torah outlook?

R’ Moshe Shapiro taught that the neshama of a miscarriage is a child that belongs to the parents, and not a random neshama that descended from heaven for a tikun (rectification). Furthermore, the suffering of the parents, especially the mother, is an intrinsic part of the tikun of the child. This knowledge, that there is a real connection to the fetus and that the suffering was not in vain, can in itself be a comfort.[1]

Here are the comforting and inspiring words of R’ Moshe Wolfson, who wrote the following in a letter to a woman that had a miscarriage:

In Heaven there is a heichal ha’neshamos — a Sanctuary of Souls — the source from which all the souls come. The final redemption will not come until all souls have left this sanctuary and descended to this world.[2] Each soul has its own unique mission to fulfill in this world and is allotted the lifespan necessary to fulfill that mission.

Some souls belong to a very exalted class. They are of such a sublime nature, so holy, sparkling, and brilliant, that they simply cannot bear to exist in this world for even a short time. However, they too must leave the Sanctuary of Souls so that it will be emptied, and for other reasons known only to Hashem. And so Hashem chooses a particular couple that will draw such a soul down to this world.

It departs its place near the Throne of Glory and is immediately placed in an environment in which it is at home — an environment that is divine in nature. A woman who is with the child carries within herself not only a child, but an entire Garden of Eden as well. A flame from the hidden light of creation shines above the child’s head, and by that light the child sees from one end of the world to the other.

A heavenly angel learns the entire Torah with the child.[3] All this occurs with every Jewish child. However, those special souls of which we have spoken cannot bear to separate themselves from their sublime existence by living in this earthly world. And so they are spared this discomfort and are returned to their Father in Heaven, having fulfilled their mission by leaving the Sanctuary of Souls and residing within their mother, thus bringing the world one step closer to the Final Redemption

This woman merited to have had as her guest a pure, holy soul accompanied by a divine light, a heavenly angel, and a heavenly Torah. The Master of the Universe had created a beis midrash, a study hall, for this soul within her. And when this soul left her, some of the holiness that had entered her remained, and will not leave her for the rest of her life.

She has merited to bring Moshiach’s arrival closer by offering a sacrifice for this purpose. She is not left with a mother’s usual compensation, but rather all that she has endured has been for the sake of Hashem and His people, not for her personal joy and satisfaction. She has served, not as a worker who awaits immediate payment, but as a loyal soldier, who is ready to suffer wounds in battle, if necessary, solely for the glory of the King…


[1] The Remak (Shiur Komah, 54. Shomer Emunim, Maamar Hashgacha Pratis 15) elucidates that miscarriages serve as a rectification for that which occurred in a previous gilgul. He also explains that the anguish of a lost child that the parents undergo is also part of the calculation. And so Hashem brings everyone under one roof and thereby the necessary rectifications are completed.

[2] See Yevamos 62a.

[3] See Nida 30b.

 

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Changing Diapers and Taking out the Garbage

How should we view menial tasks such as changing a baby’s diaper, taking the garbage out or cleaning the house? We may consider these tasks relatively insignificant. However, the truth is that they may be just as important, when we do it l’shem shamayim.

When R’ Yehuda Samet and his wife had several small children, they hung a sign over their changing table that read, “I am changing this diaper in order to help this child grow into a Torah scholar (if it was a boy), a Yerai Shamayim, a servant of Hashem, an Eishes Chayil (if it was a girl) and I’m doing it with sincerity and joy.” Although they didn’t always read it out loud, it had a tremendous impact on the way they changed diapers.

A poor guest who finished eating at the house of the Chozeh of Lublin noticed him cleaning the table. Puzzled, the man asked, “I can understand that you serve the guests because of the great mitzvah of hachnasas orchim, but why are you cleaning the table? Servants do that.” The Chozeh answered him that on Yom Kippur after the holy service in the Kodesh Hakadashim, the Kohen Gadol would also remove the fire pan and the spoon. So too this mitzvah is no less important.

This idea is represented by the terumas ha’deshen which was removing the ashes from the mizbeach — the dirty work. For this reason, דשן is an acronym for דבר שאינו נחשב, that which is considered inconsequential. We see how significant it is since it was placed next to the mizbeach.[1] So the next time we need to do some dirty work, we should realize that it is actually cleansing us.

 


[1] Vayikra 6:3.

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