Retrieving Purim From the Sentimentalists

The Old-Fashioned Purim of a Litvak – Common Modern Purim Misconceptions Debunked

Wednesday, March 13, 2019
In recent years certain new and questionable ideas masquerading as mainstream Torah have seeped into parts of the Jewish community, even among some devout Jews, frum Yidden.

One area in which this is particularly evident is on Purim.

Sometimes people don’t even realize that they are being fed new and questionable ideas, posing as authentic Torah, as if they were תורה מסיני, rather than recent creations and concoctions. People are so busy and harried, that it is difficult for them to think things through thoroughly, to give these new ideas a proper evaluation.

So, to make it easier on the ציבור, some of these questionable ideas and proper approaches to them are gathered below. So we should hopefully have a proper Purim, rather than a fantasy one.

(Some have previously been discussed here, while others are new)

1) In the future, other ימים טובים will be בטל, but Purim will never be בטל.

Reality – Incorrect, see our previous post on the matter.

2) On Purim one can ask הקב”ה for anything.

Reality – One can ask Hashem for anything anytime, not only on Purim. ה’ יתברך is close to us all year, as the pasuk in ספר דברים says.

3) On Purim one is guaranteed that he will get whatever he asked for from Hashem, as it states כל הפושט יד נותנין לו.

Reality – So one can ask to win the lottery and be guaranteed to do so? To know ש”ס בעל פה by next month? There is no such guarantee.

4) Why is there no הבדלה on Purim? So the simcha will stay all year.

Reality – Incorrect, see our previous post on it.

5) How can we have unbridled joy on Purim, doesn’t the gemara say that אסור לאדם למלא שחוק פיו בעולם הזה (it is forbidden for a person to fill their mouth with laughter in this world)Supposed answer – Purim is not from עולם הזה, it is from עולם הבא.

Reality – even on Purim there are limitations, we do not accept a free for all ח”ו, the בית המקדש is still lacking.

(See other similar Purim related material here)

Wishing you a גוטען חודש און א פרייליכען פורים, of real simcha, not delusions and הוללות ח”ו.

לחיים 🍷

From Mr. Litvak, here.

Recalling the ‘Doctor’s Plot’ Purim Miracle

Stalin and the Purim Miracle

 

Stalin had plans to murder millions of Russian Jews. Like Haman, the tables suddenly turned.


Jewish holidays are not merely a commemoration of an event in time. The time of year in which the miracle occurred was an opportune time for the conception of that miracle. As we make our way toward the Purim holiday, we are entering a time zone in which all the Hamans of the world can fail and Jewish redemption is born. The death and downfall of Stalin is an example of a miraculous, yet untold, modern-day Purim story.

Joseph Stalin, tyrant of communist Russia dubbed the invincible “man of steel,” who murdered approximately 20,000,000 of his own people, was particularly hateful toward the Jews. After World War Two, his anti-Semitic campaign took a more aggressive, public stance. In 1947, he targeted thousands of Jewish scientists, politicians, and intellectuals who were dismissed from their positions, humiliated, arrested, and tortured. Stalin’s infamous Doctor’s Plot, in which six Jewish doctors were arrested and tortured into making a confession, began with the Stalin-controlled media spreading rumors that Jewish doctors were poisoning Russian children by injecting them with diphtheria and killing infants in hospital wards. (Daily Mail, National Journal, 2003)

After spreading his toxic rumors about Jews to the public, Stalin carried on with his plans to eliminate Russia’s two to four million Jews, by deporting them to the freezing, uninhabitable regions of Russia and leaving them to die of starvation, hypothermia, and disease. An article from the National Journal in 2003 reported that newly discovered documents proved that in February of 1953, Stalin commissioned the construction of four camps in Kazakhstan, Siberia and in the Arctic North. The conjecture about Stalin’s genocidal plans was confirmed by P.K. Ponomarenko, Soviet Ambassador in Poland, in an article in the French Newspaper, ‘Paris-Soir’.

“A week before the Purim of 1953… Jewish faces were far from merry,” recounted Mrs. Batyah Barg, author of the autobiography Voices in the Silence. “In train stations all over Russia, train cars were being requisitioned to carry huge caravans of Jews into exile and slow death. Reliable sources confirmed that the expulsion would begin on the sixth of March, just a few days after Purim” (pg. 216).

God will yet help…. Stalin is a mere mortal… no one can know what will be with him in a half hour.

Rabbi Yitzchak Zilber, another Jewish hero and author of the autobiography, To Remain a Jew, recounts this climatic time during which he was imprisoned in the frosty region of Siberia. After Rabbi Zilber read the Book of Esther recounting the miracle of Purim to a group of Jewish prisoners, one prisoner responded, “Who needs your tales about what happened 2,500 years ago? Tell me, where is your God today? It’s not enough that Hitler finished six million – here they are about to be done with another three. Do you not see the trains and the barracks that have already been built (for this purpose)?” To which the fearless Rabbi Zilber replied, “True, our situation is difficult, but don’t be so quick to eulogize us. Haman also sent orders to 127 provinces. God will yet help…. Stalin is a mere mortal… no one can know what will be with him in a half hour.” (pg. 236- 237)

That Purim night, a few days before the Jewish doctors were due to go to trial, and just thirty minutes after Rabbi Zilber’s foretelling of Stalin’s vulnerable fate, Stalin was said to have “collapsed in a fit of rage” during a meeting in which his supporters expressed opposition to his evil plan, according to the Jewish Telegraphic Agency. That Purim, thousands of Jewish prisoners were freed. Joseph Stalin died on March 5, just a few days later, to the great relief of Russian Jewry. “To this day, I am choked with emotion every time I think back to that Purim of miracles,” recounts Mrs. Batyah Barg.

May we continue to re-experience the miracles of our holidays each and every year.

From Aish.com, here.

Children Should Not Consume Alcohol – Even on Purim!

PURIM SAFETY GUIDELINES FROM JEWISH COMMUNITY WATCH

Purim is a really fun time for kids and adults alike, and it means lots of visiting family and friends! It’s important to keep in mind that 95% of abuse occurs at the hands of someone well known to the child, which makes it so important to stay educated and proactive while avoiding unnecessary panic or anxiety (which is detrimental to kids). Whether you’re away visiting others or having lots of guests, safety rules are a must!

  • Children need to know that if anyone offers them alcohol, they must tell you immediately. It is both illegal and dangerous for minors to consume alcohol. It is also important to remember that children are very small people, and the effects of even a small amount of alcohol can be magnified significantly. A child under the influence of alcohol, in an unnaturally uninhibited state, with decreased ability to resist, and with impaired memory faculties, is a high risk of being abused and hurt.
  • Sometimes, as excited as we are about seeing friends and relatives, it’s easy to forget that our usual personal boundaries still apply. Remind your friends and relatives that if your child wants to skip the hugs and kisses this time, that should be their choice. Even the most loving and well-meaning family member can cause a child confusion about owning their body, by forcing them to give hugs and kisses when they don’t want to.
  • While treats and sweets are an important part of Purim for kids, your children should be reminded that accepting treats should only be done with your permission.
  • As always, pay attention to adults or older teens who are paying extra special attention to your kids. There are plenty of great, healthy adults who enjoy spending lots of time with children, but in general, adults and children should want to be spending time with people their own age. Trust your gut feelings, and your children’s instincts – if they don’t want to spend time with a certain relative or friend, don’t force them. Give them a chance to discuss it with you in a relaxed, non-pressured environment.
  • As always, your child should be reminded that secrets should never be kept from parents. If anyone asks your child to come with them somewhere, without telling you, the answer should be NO! (even if it’s someone he/she knows well)

The staff and volunteers of Jewish Community Watch wish all of you and your children a happy and safe Purim!

Check out these important articles on our site for more information on how to protect your children:

5 TIPS TO KEEP YOUR CHILDREN SAFE THIS HOLIDAY SEASON!

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